Is the reflection I see in the mirror who I am, or just the taxi that carries "me" around? As a TG journalist for a host of magazines I have explored this and many other ideas along the detour that has become my life. Being transgender is by far the most confused, conflicted, distracting and yet amazing journey I have ever encountered thus far.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
The Truth Will ...
When it comes to ones gender dysphoria, I've always advocated truth -- much to the dismay of many cross-dressers. But it was only after my gender dysphoria created havoc on my previous marriage that I took that position. I was then engaged for months with married cross-dressers in a forum [years ago] on the topic, and was all but crucified for suggesting that they be 100% open and honest with their significant others.
Saturday, August 25, 2012
Transgender Rapper Mykki Blanco Premieres 'Wavvy' Video
I came across this little diddy, but didn't get it.I watched the entire video and while Blanco has a scene in a wig and some female mannerisms, is this really a transgender performer?
The Prescila Queen
It's the sixth night of Lautoka, Fiji's annual Sugar Festival, and they're crowning the queen. Not the Sugar Queen -- that's tomorrow night -- but the Priscilla Queen, the winner of a series of competitions by transgender contestants to raise awareness about the transgender and gay community, at what is known widely in Fiji as Priscilla Night.
Making A List, For All The Girly Bois
It’s not even Labor Day but the toy industry is already laying the groundwork for a brisk holiday season. And this year, it’s making a play for all the little gay boys and girls—well, mostly boys—with some pretty queertastic dolls. Just invite Magic Earring Ken over and you’ll be ready to kiki in the Dream House!
See all the other dolls for the holiday season here
Manila Luzon Doll
This mini-Luzon (actually a pimped-out Barbie) sports an adorable pineapple dress with Swarovski crystals, metallic sequins, an emerald mermaid flounce—and a hefty $700 price tag. We hear the limited edition Imelda Marcos version comes with 40 pairs of shoes.See all the other dolls for the holiday season here
Friday, August 24, 2012
March Honors 46th Anniversary of Compton's Cafeteria Riots
In the 1960s, Compton's Cafeteria in San Francisco's gritty Tenderloin neighborhood was virtually the only place in the city where transgender folks could congregate publicly, as they weren't allowed in gay bars at the time. Cross-dressing was still illegal in the city, and the local police often used the presence of trans women as a pretext for raiding and closing gay bars.(continue reading in The Advocate).
In the history section of TGreporter.com there is a full account of this -- the nation's first transgender protest -- which occurred three years before the legendary Stonewall Riots in New York city that spawned the gay rights movement. Read about people in transgender history.
XY That Girl, New Transgender TV Show
A representative of KBS Joy stated on August 23rd, “Shin Dong Yup and Hong Suk Chun have been chosen as the MCs for a new transgender talk show on KBS Joy called ‘XY That Girl‘.”
‘XY That Girl’ will be about those living out their lives as a transgender and the struggles they face as they live as one who is familiar with both the lives of men and the hearts of women. The fact that a show like this will be airing in Korea has already brought much attention.
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Trans Girl Used in Car Ads: Good thing or same 'ol typecsasting?
19-year-old Ukrainian-born male model Stav Strashko – who identifies as transgender – struts in front of the camera, long hair flowing, and with a girlish demeanor turns to reveal her flat-chested maleness.
The tagline for the new Toyota Auris is ''not in trend, not casual, not for everyone.''
Why its great that trans-models are getting work, it is troubling when they get it to portray something off, something different.
Or is it? After all, we are different. Stav has a Tumblr page here, and with the incredible good looks and lean frame, seems to be following in Andrej's wake.
Take a look and see what you think of the ad.
Take a look and see what you think of the ad.
APA Issues Position Statements Supporting Transgender Care And Civil Rights
Following up on guidelines generated by a report on transgender healthcare last month, the American Psychiatric Association has issued official position statements on the care and civil rights of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals. The new statements reflect this year’s editions to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (the DSM-V) that will identify being transgender as “Gender Dysphoria,” removing the classification of “Gender Identity Disorder.” The APA explained the importance of standing up for the trans community, citing the “significant discrimination, prejudice, and the potential for victimization from violent hate crimes, as well as denial of many basic civil rights, protections, and access to health care, to the severe detriment of their mental health. Here are the new position statements: Read the position statements here
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Transsexual Moves Under the Regime of Chavez
An Interview with Maria Gabriela Blanco, Alianza sexo-género diversa revolucionaria (Revolutionary Alliance of Sex-Gender, and Diversity, ASGDRe)
Under Hugo Chávez, there have been many gains in the struggle for liberation, including for lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgendered people (LGBT). Discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation was outlawed in the 1999 Labour Organic Law but anti-discrimination proposals were dropped from the 1999 Constitution due to pressure from the Catholic Church; same-sex couples cannot marry or adopt children and several proposals that would have advanced such struggles were defeated in the Constitutional referendum of 2007. There have always been diverse political currents within the LGBT community, but three years ago, the first revolutionary LGBT collective was formed.
We caught up with one of its founding members, activist MarÃa Gabriela Blanco, at a meeting of the Alianza Popular Revolucionaria (Revolutionary Popular Alliance, APR) in Caracas. Source: The Bullet
Some Girls Just Want To Have Fun ... and be Pretty
Transgender Votes? Some Yes, Some No
Voting for transgender people varies depending where you are in the world. In America, new voter ID laws could prevent more than 25,000 transgender citizens from voting, while in India,Transsexual persons can now enroll as voters in a hassle-free manner, thanks to the modified guidelines issued by the Election Commission of India.
Monday, August 20, 2012
Happening in the U.K.
WayOut Club last week held there LAST event at 2AD. The next event will happen on August 25th at Abbey 33 Minories EC3N 1DD, and Vickie has a bunch of new announcements to tickle your fancies!
Cyrsti's Transgender Condo: Mentally Ill
My friend Cyrsti says she feel much better since "illness" has been downgraded to "dysphoria" by the medical community.
Cyrsti's Transgender Condo: Mentally Ill
Cyrsti's Transgender Condo: Mentally Ill
Transgender Models -- Talent or Hype?
Isis King was the first model to step out on America's Next Top Model, even though there were many transgender models in the world of fashion before her. GLADD announced that "
America’s Next Top Model kicks off its 19th cycle next Friday with an all-new set of judges after Nigel Barker, Jay Manuel and Miss J. Alexander were given the boot.
But it’s an international version of the show—there have been more than two dozen to date—making waves right now: Season Three of Korea’s Next Top Model features among its cast of aspiring fashionistas Choi Han-bit, who is transgender."
Is allowing transgender models on the show an open door policy that anyone who can pull it off can compete, or merely a new TV hype for ratings? And does it matter? I've noted my thoughts on sensationalism before.
America’s Next Top Model kicks off its 19th cycle next Friday with an all-new set of judges after Nigel Barker, Jay Manuel and Miss J. Alexander were given the boot.
But it’s an international version of the show—there have been more than two dozen to date—making waves right now: Season Three of Korea’s Next Top Model features among its cast of aspiring fashionistas Choi Han-bit, who is transgender."
Is allowing transgender models on the show an open door policy that anyone who can pull it off can compete, or merely a new TV hype for ratings? And does it matter? I've noted my thoughts on sensationalism before.
Friday, August 17, 2012
Two beginnings of Trans Experience
In an article where the author looks at the origins of transsexualism from both a political and medical point of view, she notes in closing that "I see no difficulty in the concept of blending the medical treatment
schemas for transsexual individuals and antidiscrimination and equality goals of transgender
community activism into trans identity. But that said, not every person
of transsexual history would agree with me – some see these two points
of origin as being so separate as to be in conflict with the other point
of view. It’s in this view of inherent conflict one can find the lack
of solidarity in what it means to be trans, or of trans history."
While I would agree with her that there should not be a conflict, there is, and many transwomen I've known had a huge problem with living as out transwomen. To them they were trans while in the wrong body, but post surgery were no longer trans -- they were now just women.
Yet in an interview I did some years ago with the Vogue model Lauren Foster, she noted that "I think that being TS shouldn’t be one’s defining statement, it should just be part of our life’s journey, our experience.," but she also later in the interview talked about owning her past, because without it, then she had no past.
So in my view, in this day and age, one should come out as trans: when you are open and honest there is less to remember later.
What do you think?
Will Trans Be Welcomed To Congregation?
Holland. Micigan —
Scot Miller, adult ministries director at Georgetown United Methodist
Church, will speak about accepting transgender people into the community
at a 7 p.m. meeting of PFLAG on Friday.Miller will describe an experience during Quaker worship that caused a shift in his own attitude. He will also discuss what steps the Christian community can take to be welcoming to all people.
The meeting will be at Grace Episcopal Church, 555 Michigan Ave.
Kids Know Who They Are
I've said many times that kids are the best equipped to know who they are, long before society has the opportunity to whip them into the shape they expect of them. And yesterday's story goes a long way to supporting that statement.
The mother of a transgender kid went through all the meetings with doctors, psychiatrists, searched the web, and ultimately came to understand -- at least in theory -- what her child was expressing. At the close of the article she states:
"I think parents of trans kids are the best parents ever. They unconditionally love their children, even when they don’t completely understand what their child is going through. So, my advice to other parents is really just to love their child, no matter what, and to stay strong. This is not about you or your religion and beliefs; it’s about your child. And get a great therapist, and an even better lawyer. Never let anyone question you. If your child is happy and a nice person, then you are doing the right thing."
Well said!
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Trans Actors Spells Trouble for Meteor
METEOR’S NEW television advertisement has lost it a few friends in
Ireland’s transgender community, with Transgender Equality Network
Ireland claiming the ad “negatively depicts transgender people by promoting stereotypes and encouraging a cheap laugh”. View it below and leave a comment with your thoughts.
Monday, August 13, 2012
And The March Goes On
For all the trials and tribulations that American cross-dressers think they've endured, the LGBT in other parts of the world -- most notably Asia and India -- have a much different ordeal: there are no part-time accomodations; they live it 24/7.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
A New Era for Trans Health
While the economy is -- and certainly will remain -- the main issue discussion of the nation, transgender people got a long-awaited step up in health care equality through the new universal health care law (Affordable Health Care Act) authored by the Obama administration.
Traveling En Femme?
If you're among a growing list of transfolks that travel in your prefered gender id., good news. There is a hotel for you! TAgapproved.com boasts a list of 2,000+ LGB-friendly accomodations.
Thursday, August 9, 2012
A Trip in Exotic India
So I arrived in India on July 29th, and have been getting settled in for will be a six month stay. If you'd like to follow along on my adventures, I have an India Travel Log section on my (guy persona) website where I'll be posting regularly.
A Little Nostalgia
No matter what I do in life or where it takes me, I will hold dear the days of my social group The Girls Club. We were out and proud at clubs, restaurants, events, and shows -- in the mainstream, gay and transgender circles -- before it was trending with cross-dressers.
Especially satisfying for me was the fun party atmosphere I helped establish at our one-a-month parties at East of Eighth in NYC. Of those, my favorite was the Moulin Rouge party, closely followed by our Tropical Nights and Halloween 2001.
As a reporter I also had a chance to attend some great events like Invasion of The Pines, Screaming Queens 10th Anniversary Party, and Night of a Thousand Gowns, and review so many great shows.
Especially satisfying for me was the fun party atmosphere I helped establish at our one-a-month parties at East of Eighth in NYC. Of those, my favorite was the Moulin Rouge party, closely followed by our Tropical Nights and Halloween 2001.
As a reporter I also had a chance to attend some great events like Invasion of The Pines, Screaming Queens 10th Anniversary Party, and Night of a Thousand Gowns, and review so many great shows.
Trans Rockers
When Tom Gabel of Against Me! came out as transgender and announced his transition to become Laura Jane Grace the press was on fire. But she is not the first trans-rocker.
Once of the first enduring trans-rockers was Jayne County with her debut Man Enough To Be a Woman, Venus Demars of All The Pretty Horses, and from 2000-2003 Lisa Jackson (photo below) was all the rage (all three performed together at the legendary CBGBs in NYC back in 2003 -- see story and photos here).
Once of the first enduring trans-rockers was Jayne County with her debut Man Enough To Be a Woman, Venus Demars of All The Pretty Horses, and from 2000-2003 Lisa Jackson (photo below) was all the rage (all three performed together at the legendary CBGBs in NYC back in 2003 -- see story and photos here).
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